Waiting politely outside
That idea faded into the background, especially after Hoebens returned to the Netherlands in 2004 to work as a Dutch teacher. Until 2017. 'Then Ewald called and reminded me of our plan. We got in touch with a former colleague from the Mexican school of anthropology and supervisor of a student who had written a thesis on a community of about 1,800 Mennonites in the municipality of Bacalar. Through her, we had access to the community. She told us about a deaf-mute girl who was eligible for a cochlear implant, but had to arrange this through the regular healthcare system. We were able to help with this because we were more familiar with Mexican bureaucracy.'
Although contact had already been established through the ex-colleague, it was not easy to get in touch with people in this insular community. Hoebens remembers the first meeting well. 'You arrive at a house and wait politely for someone to come out and ask you what you want. That is the custom among them. Children playing outside saw us standing, and after a while, they ran inside to warn their parents. Then chairs were placed in a circle outside and we started talking. They asked if we were the people who could help the girl and, in a mixture of Dutch and German, we were able to have a reasonably good conversation with the Mennonites, who speak Plautdietsch, also called Mennonite Low German.’
In the years that followed, Hoebens did fieldwork in Bacalar every year, except for the COVID year of 2020. Communication was not easily established. ‘When I was there for a month and a half in 2018, I felt quite desperate at times because people hardly wanted to talk.’ But persistence pays off. ‘After a while, they recognized me and greeted me cautiously. With the same nods and hand gestures they use with each other. Old Colony Mennonites are reserved in socializing.’ Although Hoebens did not establish deep connections with everyone, she has now formed good relationships with several families and individuals.
Not sports, but playing pranks
In Bacalar, Hoebens experienced the austere lifestyle of the Mennonites up close. ‘During one of my first visits, I brought some toy balls for the children, but they don't play sports. Reading for pleasure or artistic tendencies are also frowned upon.’ Nevertheless, there are moments of relaxation. On Wednesdays from around four o'clock and on Sunday afternoons after lunch, young people aged fifteen and older are allowed to go outside. They sing a little, stroll through the community or play pranks, for example by climbing onto the roof of the shop. ‘These are the moments when boys and girls get to know each other. They have some fun and may meet someone they like.’
Hoebens immersed herself in the culture of the Mennonites to discover more about them, particularly their language. ‘The language they speak and write is crucial in preserving the community. Plautdietsch prevents members of the community from coming into contact with the outside world. At the same time, communities need commercial contacts to trade their harvests to survive. This makes it necessary to have members who speak Spanish.’